dog training

Am I a good dog owner? How to know if you are a good dog owner.

Here is a question from a young adult dog owner:

“I found your website on google and I have a question about crate training.

My puppy is 1 year old and she’s a great dog. The only problem is, I work a lot and she’s not able to be out of her crate while I’m at work. In a general sense, is this abusive toward the dog? I’m in a position where financially, I need to be looking into getting a second job, but I don’t want to do that at the risk of crating her seven days a week for 8-10 hours a day. She’s only in her crate while I’m at work or not in the house, and besides that she’s always out and being active. I’m just worried that I’m not giving her the best life possible by crating her at all, and I’m not sure what the best option at this point would be for her.

Any help you can offer would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you!

Arianna”

 

This is a common problem that many pet owners have between balancing their time at work and caring for their pet; especially single adults that are caring for a dog on their own. I hope that some people that are considering getting a pet, will read this article to consider the responsibilities of pet ownership.

Caring for a puppy or young dog takes a lot of time. Dogs need attention and exercise.

For a dog to be happy, they need to spend time around their owner. Dogs need to receive daily walks. At the minimum, a dog needs two walks a day. Each walk should be thirty minutes minimum. Some athletic breeds will need three walks a day / thirty minutes minimum each walk.

Are you neglecting your dog by keeping your dog in a crate for eight hours a day? Yes, you are! This is not not a humane way to treat a dog. It will lead towards behavior problems. And the problems that it brings on is why humane societies and shelters are loaded with dogs. Some pet owners do not understand that dog ownership means walking their dog.

Maybe you have rescued a dog from a shelter. And in that case, you have improved the dog’s life from 24 hours a day in a cage to 10 hours a day in a cage. If you have rescued a dog from a shelter,  whatever you are doing is probably an improvement to the life it had in the shelter.  Nonetheless, you should be looking for more opportunities to get your young dog out of the crate. The maximum amount of time that a dog should continuously be in a crate is four hours. And why is the dog in a crate at all? Because she tears things up in the home when you are away at work? That means that the dog needs more activity. The dog needs more walks. Also, doing a dog training session with a dog trainer will further teach the dog how to productively expend the dog’s energy so she won’t destroy the furniture.  The essential issue addressed by Arianna at the top of this article is she is busy with work and she doesn’t have enough time to exercise her dog.  There are solutions. Some are paid solutions and some options do not require exceeding your budget.

Inexpensive solutions for getting your dog more attention and exercise: Co-share the dog.

The inexpensive solution is to look for ways to share your dog with other people. Ask your friends and family if they can keep your dog while you are away at work. Place an ad in craigslist looking for someone to spend time with your dog. Have you heard of people exchanging homes so that they can travel to new locations without paying for expensive hotels? Its similar to that. Ideally, you want to get to know the person who will be sharing your dog. Spend time with that person. Go on dog walks together with that co-owner. Hang out at the cafe together. Try to become friends before you hand over the leash. Be flexible with your time to hang out when the other person is available. This may involve taking some time off work. And that tells you that its a good match for your dog. Because this person is available when you are typically working. Yes, it will take time to do this, but it is worth the time. Your dog needs this. The most important criteria in finding a co-owner for your dog:  will that person take the dog out on walks daily and often.

Another way to co-share a dog: go to the humane society and get a vest that says “adopt me” (maybe the wording is slightly different but the meaning is the same) and put it on your dog when you take her for walks. Walk around your neighborhood with the “adopt me” vest on your dog. This will be a conversation starter. Tell them that you are looking for someone that wants to co-share the dog and would they consider keeping your dog while you are busy? This starts the discussion. What days / hours could they take care of the dog? Is that person open to the concept of co-sharing a dog together or does that person want sole possession? Not everyone is going to fit your criteria but you’ve got to search for that right match. Finding someone in your neighborhood would be convenient, and if that doesn’t work out, then, consider taking the dog to hiking trails and open space parks with the “adopt me” vest. Someone that is already in a  park or on a hiking trail is a good candidate. Occasionally, take time off from work (even a one or two hour break) to walk the dog ( with the “adopt me” vest) at times where you might run into that special someone that is free when you are usually working.

Another option is make your own vest that says “rent me.” It’s a joke and a  conversation starter to find a person interested in walking your dog. Remember, the easiest way to strike up a conversation with a stranger is when a person is walking a dog. Tell this to your single friends to encourage them to borrow your dog. And keep this is in mind as you are prospecting new co-owners. What you are doing is searching for a new friend.  Its similar to finding a new boyfriend (or girlfriend). Put yourself out there.

If you were thinking of getting a dog, but now you are reconsidering because you don’t have enough time to walk the dog everyday, then consider placing an ad in https://www.craigslist.org  (in the pets section or the activities section) offering to care for someone else’s pet a few days a week.  You are in the driver’s seat. You can ask for pictures and select the dog you like best because this service is very much in demand. If you are not asking for money,  you can probably ask that the owner drop off and pick up their dog at your place. Just keep in mind, that you want to create a feeling of trustworthiness with the other person.

Should I get a second dog to entertain my first dog?

I recommend seeking a human friend (paid or unpaid) for your pet more than getting a second dog to entertain your dog. If you are considering getting a second dog because your first dog has too much energy. This is a bad reason for getting a second dog. In these cases, the dogs frequently play fight with one another. The owner thinks the play fighting is a good way to get out the excess energy of the dogs, but more often the “play fighting” leads to real fighting. Eventually, the dogs begin to fight for real and then the owner has to separate the house because the dogs do not get along. This defeats the very reason for getting a second dog!

Another option when the owner is away at work is sending  your dog to doggie day care while you are at work. Before you do this,  watch how the dogs interact in the facility. Choose a doggie day care facility that doesn’t encourage the dogs to play fight in the facility. Dogs in a doggie day care facility should be playing with toys, not “play biting” or wrestling with other dogs. It’s okay if more than one dog is biting the same toy. As I mentioned in a previous paragraph, “play fighting” leads to real fighting. So dogs that play fight are likely to become dog-to-dog aggressive.

What is better: hiring a dog walker or taking my dog to doggie day care?

Another option for owners is to hire a dog walker. I prefer hiring a dog walker than taking  a dog to doggie day care because the most important aspect to canine well-being is getting outside into the world of nature. Furthermore, I prefer the dog walker that only walks your dog versus the dog walker that picks up a van load of dogs and takes them walking in a pack. Proper dog ownership involves separating dogs from other dogs. This builds more compliance with humans. Have you ever seen a guide dog for a blind person in a dog park wrestling with other dogs? That’s because its not good for general obedience. The best places to take a dog are on hiking trails, open space fields, open space parks. Stay away from dog parks unless your dog is the only dog in the fenced in area. In general, don’t rely on the dog park. Pick up the leash and explore the world outside of fences and cages. That is what dogs really want. A hiking trail or open field on a leash is a million times better than the best dog park.

Dog ownership takes time and energy. The main aspect to responsible dog ownership is daily walking and spending time with your pet. As a dog trainer, I’ve offered you choices for how to get your dog out on the leash. If you do not have time to walk the dog daily, then you have to search for ways to get your dog on walks. One way is to to hire someone to exercise your dog when you cannot. Dog ownership can be expensive. Or it is something to be shared among several people. A  family can share the responsibilities of dog ownership among the family members. For single adults that are caring for a pet alone, there is another choice that doesn’t require more money. It involves you reaching out into the community and trusting another fellow human being. It’s worth the effort. It’s worth the risk. Do it.

Dog training tips and activities: what to do and what not to do.

Dog training tips: one of the most important exercises to teach your dog is to retrieve. Retrieve is the fetch game; its when you throw a ball, your dog runs to get it, brings it back to you, and willingly returns it to you – as if saying: “that was fun, let’s do it again!”  Tip two for dog training: one of the worst things to teach your new dog or puppy in the early stage of development is tug of war. Tug of war is when you take a rope (or toy),  your dog bites one end of the rope; and the owner and dog play a pulling game: a tug of war against one another other. Retrieve teaches your dog to share. Tug of war teaches your dog to work against the owner.  As a beginning exercise, retrieve may not be simple to learn, but all dogs can learn how to retrieve. Another important tip for dog training: tug of war is very easy to teach your dog, and if tug of war is one of the first games that you teach your canine, you are increasing the chance of creating behavioral problems in your dog or puppy.

Dog training is about learning how to influence canine behavior.

The retrieve game is important on many levels. It provides exercise for your dog. It’s a bonding activity between you and your dog. And retrieve teaches your dog the act of sharing. The owner and dog are doing a shared activity. The dog is having fun in a controlled situation. Retrieve teaches the dog to cooperate with the owner, while still having fun with the owner. Playing proper games with a dog is how a dog learns good manners. Retrieve helps the dog to become more mature. With maturity comes improved behavior and cooperation.

Conversely, tug of war teaches a dog to become selfish. The dog pulls against you. And gains pleasure by competing against you. Tug of war teaches a dog to gain pleasure from the “me” perspective, retrieve teaches a dog to gain pleasure from an “us” perspective. Dog training is a worthwhile endeavor because the pet owner learns how to develop good dog behavior for the lifetime of their pet.

Some dogs play tug of war with the leash while taking a walk with their owner.  How did this problem start? Did someone teach the dog to play tug of war? Most likely, someone in the family has taught the dog to do tug of war. Now the dog is just extending the same tug of war game to the walk and the leash. When you tell the dog to stop playing tug of war, very commonly the dog doesn’t listen. Why? Because the tug of war game encourages the dog not to listen. The tug of war games teaches the dog to do what he wants; not what the owner wants. This example of a dog playing tug of war with the leash while on a walk is what can happen if someone teaches a dog the wrong activities in the development stage. When seeking a dog trainer, part of the job is to erase past mistakes. A dog playing tug of war with the leash while walking is correctable by a good dog trainer.

Only teach a dog tug of war as the last part of dog training obedience lessons, not the first activity between the owner and pet.  Playing tug of war too early messes up the retrieve exercise; and it negatively affects dog behavior. A dog that is taught retrieve after tug, will likely do a poor fetch. He will chase the ball, pick it up, maybe even come close to you. But when it comes to handing it over… no way!  He dances close to you and when you reach to grab the ball, He dashes away. Or He holds the toy so tightly in his mouth that you have to pry it out.  Your dog is doing exactly what you taught her to do. He is being selfish, not listening, and doing what he wants. He is having fun at your expense, rather than having fun with you as a shared activity. These types of problems can be corrected. A dog trainer fixes unwanted behaviors.

 

Dog training Tips
Dog training tips and activities: a retriever breed may by easier to teach  fetch, but dogs of all breeds are able to learn to retrieve.

 

All pet owners who are interested in dog training  should be learning how to do the retrieve game with their dog. If the dog doesn’t take to retrieve automatically, then it is recommended to contact a dog training professional to learn this essential activity. When you teach a dog to play tug of war too soon, you encourage him to have fun by being selfish. Behavioral problems such as playing tug of war with the leash; fighting with other dogs; barking; destroying furniture; leash lunging, and not listening all have a component of the dog being overly selfish. Practicing the retrieve game is one way to help bring cooperation between the owner and dog. Whether it is intentional or unintended, dog behavior is a consequence of the games that are done between the owner and the dog. Learn to play the “right” games with your pet to bring about a well trained dog.

Dog training Oahu: choosing the right dog trainer

When seeking dog training Oahu, its helpful to view the evolution of dog training in general. Dog training has evolved in a similar manner as childhood education. In the 1870’s, it was common for a school teacher to hit children and at the time, hitting a child was an accepted part of childhood development. Very similarly, old style dog training has been taught through fear and pain. When looking at your options for dog training Oahu, do you want a dog trainer that is employing methods from the 1870’s or someone that is using contemporary techniques?  In Hawaii, the geographical isolation of our islands has permitted old style dog training methods to continue. Some Oahu dog trainers still employ older methods that rely on pain and punishment. There are some simple signs of whether your dog training instructor in Oahu is using an archaic method or a newer method for teaching a dog.  A contemporary dog trainer in Oahu uses positive experiences to guide the dog towards desired behavior. Positive reinforcement training is the modern method of training dogs and puppies. One way to determine if you have selected a good dog trainer for can be based on the dog trainer’s choice of tools, particularly the leash and collar. Here are some tips for how to select a good teacher for dog training.

When interviewing instructors for dog training Oahu, ask them if they use a choke chain collar.

If the dog does something undesirable, then the old method dog trainer yanks on the choke chain collar (via the attached leash) to punish the dog. I am very surprised to see that some dog trainers in Oahu are still employing this outdated method. This technique of constantly reprimanding a dog through choke chain correction, is akin to the 1870’s style of childhood education. This is the the old school house master hitting the students with the stick. An old criticism of dog training was that it kills the spirit of the dog. Well, if you are constantly and repeatedly employing a choke chain correction, then imagine what it does to the personality of your family pet? Choking a dog for every undesirable act? Do you see how that could negatively alter the personality of your dog? Then why do some instructors of dog training Oahu still use the choke chain? Because Hawaii is the most geographically isolated land mass in the world. There’s been a shortage in the exchange of ideas (at least in the field of dog training). Even if clients objected to old style dog training techniques, there weren’t many choices within 2,467 miles, so this allowed old style dog training to perpetuate in Hawaii.   The choke chain collar is an outdated training tool. I would not recommend any dog trainer in Oahu that still uses this device.

When interviewing teachers for dog training, ask the instructor if he uses an electronic shock collar.

The idea of using an electronic shock collar to train a dog is so outrageous that dog trainers who use this device call it a different name other than electronic shock collar. Sometimes its called a “remote.” And others will call it an “e collar.” When the dog does something undesirable, the owner zaps the dog with electric shock. Go back to the 1870’s school house style of teaching. Maybe the school house master didn’t have access to electric shock therapy, but if he did, then he would gladly shock students for spelling incorrectly. Beware of training your dog with a dog trainer that uses an electronic shock collar. The personality of the dog will be negatively affected after being shocked with electricity. If you use the electric shock collar for dog training Oahu, then you will essentially kill the spirit of your dog. Unfortunately, the use of the electric shock collar is used by some dog trainers in Oahu. So before you decide on who you are going use for dog training Oahu, ask the instructor if he uses the electronic shock collar.

A standard six foot leash is the standard tool in positive reinforcement dog training.

A dog trainer communicates with a dog through the standard leash. Not the gentle lead. Unnecessary leash devices include the “gentle lead” device which wraps around the dog’s snout and pulls on the dog whenever the dog pulls on the lead. The problem with the “gentle lead” is that it is not gentle. When it pulls on the dog’s snout, this produces a great deal of pain in an area that is highly sensitive to a dog.  Additionally, the “gentle lead” device doesn’t allow the dog to fully open their mouth. A dog regulates their body temperature by opening their mouth, so you don’t want anything impeding this action. The desired effect of a “gentle lead” device is to teach the dog to walk without pulling on the leash. If this pulling on the leash can be solved without the “gentle lead” device, then it would be a more humane form of dog training because the same effect can be produced  while letting the dog breathe more comfortably and with less pain to the dog’s snout area. It’s the skills of the dog trainer that produce good behavior in dogs, not the use of extra tools, like the gentle lead.

Use the standard six foot leash for dog training in Oahu
The standard six foot leash
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The standard buckle collar. Not the choke chain. Not the collar with the plastic fastener clip.

 What is dog training?

Dog training is a low technology activity. The best tools for dog training are the simplest ones. Look for the  dog trainer that uses the standard buckle collar ( the martingale collar is also acceptable) that goes around the neck; and a standard leash that is six feet long. When you select a dog trainer that uses these simple tools, you will be learning from a teacher that emphasizes relationship building rather than communicating via pain and punishment. A dog trainer that uses the buckle collar and the six foot leash is more likely to encourage pet owners to use their emotions to communicate with their dog rather than relying on extraneous devices to send signals to their dog.  The goal in selecting a teacher for dog training Oahu, is choosing someone that will teach the pet owner how to communicate with their pet. If you want your dog to keep his award winning personality, then avoid the dog trainer in Oahu that advocates using the choke chain, the electronic shock collar, or the “gentle lead” device. These tools are instruments of pain. Every time the dog does something undesirable, the dog handler sends a pain signal to the dog. The evolution in dog training has been to minimize the use of pain as a communication tool and increase the usage of reward. The choke chain, the electronic shock collar, and the gentle lead are indicators of pain based dog training. The newer form of teaching dogs is referred to as reward based dog training.